Thursday, January 24, 2019

Writer For Hire


Careers, like rockets, don’t always take off on time. The trick is to always keep the engine running.”
— Gary Sinise

Full disclosure, this quote has appeared in this space before, however, it remains true. Back in the day (and ‘the day’ is a moveable feast depending on your age) it wasn’t uncommon for a person to stay with the same company for decades. If you found a good job, you stuck with it. It’s not that way now. Some people plow through jobs like their career path is an all-you-can-eat buffet. They try everything. Nothing wrong with that if you can manage it financially or otherwise. 

There are also layoffs and downsizing. Some employees get walked out with a cardboard box of their things on a random Tuesday, and they are shellshocked and not sure how to continue. This career strategy is a tough gig. If you don’t have a winning lottery ticket, chances are you have a job. Think about so many of the federal employees who are on the job now, without pay. I’ve been a federal employee; it’s not all service and sunshine. Most of the furloughed employees cannot just turn around and get another job. Security clearances, conflicts of interest and the like prevent some workers from moonlighting while they wait for the toddler wing in Washington to get its act together. I’ve been in their shoes, and my heart is with them because it has to be awful.

Recently I had a reasonably good shot at a new job, that was going to be in my same field, but more travel, more money, more challenges. It was a near lock. Emphasis on “near.” I left the job I was in, and, almost on cue, the new job bonked. Kind of like the Charlie Brown and Lucy football scenario. I finally got up the nerve to make a move and AUUUUUGGGGH; I was on my keister. 

It happens. Normally the resumes would be flying out the door immediately, and the pounding of pavement would start. Except that a few family things got in the way; my children lost their last remaining grandparent, so the search had to wait. It’s back on now though, and it’s been…interesting. The first instinct is to be all “OMG; I will take anything, I need a job.” 

That is the financial panic talking. Given that since graduating from college my career path has included what seems like 700 jobs, there are very few career positions that I haven’t looked at or done. Everything from waitressing, to office administration work, to travel, Internet start-ups, social media, journalism and online media marketing have been a part of paying my bills. Some of those jobs were awful, so at least that’s a start, understanding what kind of work isn’t for me is valuable knowledge.

So, what now? How do we market ourselves? How do we convince an HR manager, a company owner or a recruiter to “pick me, pick me?” While we all like to believe we are special and unique, there are hundreds of people out there with the same skills I have. No hiring manager is looking at my resume and saying, “You are familiar with Word, PowerPoint, and Excel? That’s incredible!” My kids could use those by the time they were in 5th grade. I am, at my core, a writer, so it would seem like a no-brainer that describing my skills would come easily. Nope. Not even close.


So, asking around is good, right? Networking and getting out there and informational interviews are the way to go. Well, yes, that’s a start, but everyone you speak to has a different idea on strategy, so you wind up with a thousand opinions and still no job. Well, like Winston Churchill said, “If you’re going through hell, just keep going.” It’s true. It’s mind-boggling sometimes, but eventually, we all land where we are supposed to be.

I’m learning a lot from the job search. It’s made me remember my last months of college when it was all about buying the first business suit, writing my first resume and going on interviews trying to sound coherent. With the many years behind me of work, jobs, and experience, it’s a very different process but stressful nonetheless. 
I’ve been so grateful for friends who have advised me, tossed some work my way when they could and just been there. It’s never easy to pick up the pieces when a plan goes awry, but it will happen. On the bright side, I’ve become really creative with my spending habits, and if the Marie Kondo bug ever hits me, I could have an outstanding yard sale with some of the stuff I have jammed in my closets from days gone by. 

Yet again I’m figuring out what I want to be when I grow up. No, wait, scratch that. I’m already a writer and an author and a parent. Not too shabby, right? The next opportunity will come and then who knows where it could take me. I might not have taken off for the stars yet, but the rocket ship is a go for launch, engine running.




3 comments:

  1. Yes - It’s a tough situation , but I agree with Winston, just keep at it ‼️ When after 9|11 my son lost his good job as a financial broker and had a new little first house and a 18 month old daughter - things were “scary”! Fortunately his wife went back to her job - and I babysat my adorable granddaughter from 7 to after dinner , that I had ready when they got home. My son had a “ head hunter” and spent all day searching and applying - till luck happened. He is now a “ Regional director of an investment firm in Chicago, with 3 more kids. Wish they were in Marblehead ‼️

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  3. Thank you for reading! I am nothing if not persistent. OK, I'm likely bossy, belligerent, verbose, and overconfident, but hey, I gotta be me. Oh and this comment was deleted once so I could edit it, I left out a comma. #GrammarGirl

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