Careers, like rockets, don’t always take off on time. The trick is
to always keep the engine running.”
— Gary Sinise
Full disclosure, this quote has appeared in this space before,
however, it remains true. Back in the day (and ‘the day’ is a moveable feast
depending on your age) it wasn’t uncommon for a person to stay with the same
company for decades. If you found a good job, you stuck with it. It’s not that
way now. Some people plow through jobs like their career path is an
all-you-can-eat buffet. They try everything. Nothing wrong with that if you can
manage it financially or otherwise.
There are also layoffs and downsizing. Some
employees get walked out with a cardboard box of their things on a random
Tuesday, and they are shellshocked and not sure how to continue. This career strategy is a tough gig. If you don’t have a winning
lottery ticket, chances are you have a job. Think about so many of the federal
employees who are on the job now, without pay. I’ve been a federal employee;
it’s not all service and sunshine. Most of the furloughed employees cannot just
turn around and get another job. Security clearances, conflicts of interest and
the like prevent some workers from moonlighting while they wait for the toddler
wing in Washington to get its act together. I’ve been in their shoes, and my
heart is with them because it has to be awful.
It happens. Normally the resumes would be flying out the door
immediately, and the pounding of pavement would start. Except that a few family
things got in the way; my children lost their last remaining grandparent, so
the search had to wait. It’s back on now though, and it’s been…interesting. The first instinct is to be all “OMG; I will take anything, I need
a job.”
That is the financial panic talking. Given that since graduating from
college my career path has included what seems like 700 jobs, there are very
few career positions that I haven’t looked at or done. Everything from
waitressing, to office administration work, to travel, Internet start-ups,
social media, journalism and online media marketing have been a part of paying
my bills. Some of those jobs were awful, so at least that’s a start,
understanding what kind of work isn’t for me is valuable knowledge.
So, what now? How do we market ourselves? How do we convince an HR
manager, a company owner or a recruiter to “pick me, pick me?” While we all
like to believe we are special and unique, there are hundreds of people out
there with the same skills I have. No hiring manager is looking at my resume
and saying, “You are familiar with Word, PowerPoint, and Excel? That’s
incredible!” My kids could use those by the time they were in 5th grade. I am,
at my core, a writer, so it would seem like a no-brainer that describing my
skills would come easily. Nope. Not even close.
So, asking around is good, right? Networking and getting out there
and informational interviews are the way to go. Well, yes, that’s a start, but
everyone you speak to has a different idea on strategy, so you wind up with a
thousand opinions and still no job. Well, like Winston Churchill said, “If
you’re going through hell, just keep going.” It’s true. It’s mind-boggling
sometimes, but eventually, we all land where we are supposed to be.
I’m learning a lot from the job search. It’s made me remember my
last months of college when it was all about buying the first business suit,
writing my first resume and going on interviews trying to sound coherent. With
the many years behind me of work, jobs, and experience, it’s a very different
process but stressful nonetheless.
I’ve been so grateful for friends who have
advised me, tossed some work my way when they could and just been there. It’s
never easy to pick up the pieces when a plan goes awry, but it will happen. On
the bright side, I’ve become really creative with my spending habits, and if
the Marie Kondo bug ever hits me, I could have an outstanding yard sale with
some of the stuff I have jammed in my closets from days gone by.
Yet again I’m
figuring out what I want to be when I grow up. No, wait, scratch that. I’m
already a writer and an author and a parent. Not too shabby, right? The next
opportunity will come and then who knows where it could take me. I might not
have taken off for the stars yet, but the rocket ship is a go for launch,
engine running.
Yes - It’s a tough situation , but I agree with Winston, just keep at it ‼️ When after 9|11 my son lost his good job as a financial broker and had a new little first house and a 18 month old daughter - things were “scary”! Fortunately his wife went back to her job - and I babysat my adorable granddaughter from 7 to after dinner , that I had ready when they got home. My son had a “ head hunter” and spent all day searching and applying - till luck happened. He is now a “ Regional director of an investment firm in Chicago, with 3 more kids. Wish they were in Marblehead ‼️
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ReplyDeleteThank you for reading! I am nothing if not persistent. OK, I'm likely bossy, belligerent, verbose, and overconfident, but hey, I gotta be me. Oh and this comment was deleted once so I could edit it, I left out a comma. #GrammarGirl
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